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Kansas City Wedding Photographer

Merry Ohler is a Kansas City-based documentary photographer specializing in wedding, elopement, family, senior, maternity, and newborn photography. Her style focuses on capturing unposed, unscripted moments, blending candid documentary photography with artistic storytelling. Merry is dedicated to documenting life's special moments with integrity and beauty, emphasizing the importance of being present and enjoying the experience. She provides various services, including custom timeline planning, location scouting, professional editing, and personalized guidance, all aimed at delivering a stress-free, enjoyable photography experience for her clients.

Kansas City Elopement, Wedding & Portrait Photographer


Kansas City Wedding Photographer

Hi, I’m Merry. Welcome to the heart of Kansas City, where every frame of my camera captures the unscripted beauty of your most treasured moments. At Merry Ohler Photography, we specialize in turning fleeting glances, intimate whispers, and joyous laughter into lasting memories.

It’s an honor to provide joyful wedding photography and portrait photography to Kansas City and the surrounding areas, including: Liberty, Kearney, Excelsior Springs, Lathrop, St. Joseph, Independence, Lee’s Summit, Raytown, Parkville, Lenexa, Mission Hills, Olathe, Overland Park, Lawrence, Grandview, North Kansas City, Belton, Plattsburg, Lawson, Cameron, Odessa and beyond.

Your life's milestones, from the intimate exchange of your marriage commitments to welcoming a new life, are your stories worth telling. My passionate focus is on capturing the authenticity of these moments, the unposed, the real - the heart of your story.

Insider Tip:

My couples frequently ask questions like the ones listed below. Click any question to view my answer!


  • I’m so glad you asked! Documentary photography is a style of photography that focuses on unposed, unscripted moments as an art form and way to document life in photography. “Candid” photography is all anyone is talking about lately, and candid is just another word for documentary. Documentary photography is all about photographing what’s really happening. Emotions, interactions, movement, color, light. It’s less “picture perfect” and more “picture real.” As a documentary photographer, I will still give direction as needed, but my focus is to help you forget my presence and focus on creating a memory with those you love most. Then, I document those memories in a meaningful way you’ll treasure forever.

  • I provide beautiful, joyful documentary (read: candid) wedding and portrait photography for present-over-perfect people in Kansas City and beyond.

    I do have a decidedly documentary photography style, which means that while I do deliver some posed images (think family photos, wedding party photos and some bride and groom portraits) the majority of your photos will be candid and largely photographed from behind the scenes. This frees you to enjoy turning the moments of your special day into memories…without any intrusive photography tactics or methods.

    My goal is to document your day with integrity and beautiful images…without interfering with your memories.

    Every wedding and photo session includes:

    *personal, custom timeline planning assistance

    *location scouting

    *professional editing for white balance, color correction, clarity and density

    *attire guidance

    *final images delivered as digital files in high resolution for large format printing

  • You can expect custom, personalized guidance every step of the way. From choosing the optimum date and time for your photo session, to location scouting, attire guidance, session preparation tips and more, I’m your wedding (or portrait session) BFF, here and ready to guide you to your best possible experience.

    With over 100 weddings and countless portrait sessions under my belt, I’m happy and willing to provide creative ideas and tips upon request to help you make your wedding your own, or to provide valuable feedback if there are items which could present a challenge for you down the road.

    I do my best to communicate clearly, concisely and effectively, which helps eliminate any overwhelm and keeps you focused on what matters most.

    My process is clean, clear and everything is communicated in easy-to-understand, step-by-step instructions. Scroll a little further down to learn more about my process!

  • Yes, I do! Contact me today to inquire about your specific date!

Wedding Photographer Kansas City

Your wedding day is a canvas of emotions. My role is to document these moments gracefully and honestly, ensuring that the memories we capture are as genuine and beautiful as the day itself.

Your wedding day is about the story you’re writing together.

Your love story deserves a storyteller who will document each moment in its truest form, with all its unique, candid moments.


Let’s be friends! Follow me on Instagram @merryohlerphotography!


My booking process is simple. Here’s what you can expect.

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What do you think? Can you see yourself in my wedding photos or portraits? Contact me today! 2024-2025 is filling fast!


Not sure if you’re one of my wedding couples yet? Click the questions below to read what my couples have said about working with me, learn about engagement photography or what I love most about wedding photography!

  • “I honestly cannot explain how much of a blessing you have been to us. Thank you so much for being apart of such a special day and several special moments. We had so much fun with you! We appreciate you and know this will not be the last time we will see each other. Your professionalism and patience was very evident during the process. You were such a joy to be around and made everyone feel so comfortable. Our families definitely enjoyed you. Thank you again for taking a chance on us and being there for our special day!” - Ashton & Ricky

    “We LOVE our photos and had so much fun looking through them together!! Thank you for making it so easy. I really appreciate your work and bedside manner, so to speak. I struggle with having my photograph taken, and I'm not very photogenic, but you managed to help me feel comfortable and get some really beautiful shots. We felt that our wedding day was absolutely perfect for us, and we're so happy to have these photos to document it all! Thank you again for everything!” - Alayna & David

    “Thank you for the beautiful wedding photos you provided us with. They captured the essence of our special day and we are very happy with the results!” - Melissa & Joey

    “Working with Merry was amazing. We hired her to photograph our wedding, and we are so in love with how our beautiful, priceless photos turned out. Merry helped us logistically by talking through the order of family photos, and the general timeline of the day with us over coffee a few weeks before. She is also so attentive to the style of photography you want. We wanted more documentary-style candids for our day, and boy did we get what we asked for!!! Taking photos did not interrupt the flow of our wedding day or encroach on the memories being made on the day, and the joy shines through in the photos. They are stunning. Additionally, despite the 90 degree weather at our outdoor ceremony, you cannot tell that it was hot and sticky in our photos! They are edited beautifully, and were delivered to us quickly - a much shorter turnaround time than I was expecting. Everything about the process was great. Merry Ohler is the bomb!!! We are so thankful!!!” - Deanna & Ian

    “Merry is an amazing photographer. She knows what she is doing and will help to make the process very easy and enjoyable. I would recommend her to anyone needing any type of photos!” - Megan & Josh

    “Merry is such an amazing wedding photographer! She really focuses on telling a story and capturing genuine moments. She the sweetest and takes so much time to get to know you as a couple. She pours so much time and energy into making your day special and capturing it in the most beautiful way!” - Chloe & Ethan

    “I cannot put into words what an amazing person Merry is! Not only is her work beautiful, but she takes the time to get to know you on a personal level. She always manages to capture the feeling of the moment. She’s documented my growing family from the beginning and will always, she’s an amazing photographer!” - Maddison & Chris

    “I had the pleasure of Merry taking our engagement and wedding photos. She did an incredible job and was able to capture and preserve the memories that will last a lifetime. She is an amazing person and extremely talented. Brava! Thank you for your amazing work! I have a photographer for all of my life events now and future.” - Emily & Dom

  • Yes, I do! Most wedding packages include an engagement session, but I also offer engagement sessions a la carte. Contact me today for more information!

  • That’s such a great question. For me, it’s documenting all the little in between moments you don’t realize are happening on your special day. The sweet silent exchanges between your parents and grandparents. The way your mom straightens your veil when you aren’t looking. The way your dad wipes a tear as you share your first married dance. The way your niece can’t take her eyes off you because she’s convinced you are a real fairy tale princess. All these moments tell the whole story of your day, and I love to be able to document the big and small moments for you. All of these go hand in hand to craft a story that is so uniquely you. It means so much to me that I get to document all those moments and weave them together seamlessly to tell your story in a way you can be proud to share for generations to come.

Documentary Photographer in Kansas City

Merry Ohler Photography specializes in emotive, modern, joyful documentary wedding and portrait photography for “present over perfect” couples, families and seniors in Kansas City and the surrounding areas.

I am passionate about creating not just photographs, but legacies. Legacies of love, laughter, and life, captured through my lens. These are the memories that will be cherished and shared through generations, telling the story of your life's most precious moments. I document the most important days (and the every days) of your life with integrity and honesty, while protecting your memories in the process. I work hard to craft breathtaking images my clients love and cherish forever. My passion is to deliver the kind of photos that bring tears to your eyes and enable you to feel the emotions you felt in that exact moment.

At the same time, my approach is gentle, subtle and intentional. My goal is to cultivate a tone and encourage a setting that frees you to ignore me and my camera and enjoy your day…which enables me to craft heirloom images you’ll treasure always.


Elopement Photographer Kansas City

From urban elopements and private residence ceremonies, to beach destination weddings, to edgy elopements in the Crossroads District and private estates across the country… No matter where you choose to exchange intimate vows, it’s safe to say elopements in Kansas City and beyond hold a special place in my heart.

With photographing over 100 weddings I’ve witnessed just about everything you can imagine and I know how unpredictable a wedding day can be. This means I know just how important it is to build in a little wiggle room, just in case. Because I love being able to take a more laid back approach with you, I provide personalized, custom photo timeline planning assistance to all my elopement and wedding couples. You don’t have to follow the advice I give based on our consultation, but a major reason you’re booking me for your pictures is my expertise and experience.

My couples rave that the photo planning assistance I provide gives them such relief from anxiety about how their session will go. Your custom timeline planning assistance will help you know when to plan hair and makeup, when your wedding flowers should be delivered, what time family photos will be, and more.

Your wedding day should be joyful and enjoyable.

Regardless of who needs a little extra kindness in the moment, I’m delighted to deliver it and to do what I’m able to protect your peace and care for you and your people on one of the most impactful days of your lives.

Everyone knows that emotions run high during weddings and photo sessions. It’s exciting to reach such an important milestone, but at the same time, there are many emotions for everyone as you step into a new season of life. My experience as a professional wedding photographer has given me countless glimpses into the emotions a wedding can bring, and I’m quick to take note if you need a little breathing room.


Can you see yourself in my wedding photos and working with me on your wedding day? Let’s connect! Contact me today!

What do you think? Are you ready to check availability and book your wedding consultation? I’d love to meet you and hear all about your love story! Contact me today to schedule a call or coffee!


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Boston Fern, Dracaena, Golden Pothos, Jade Plant, Molded Wax Agave, Jelly Bean, Mexican Hens and Chicks, Aloe Vera & a pup, Snake Plant, Patio Tomatoes, Cherry Tomatoes, Marigolds, and an assortment of partial sun flowers.


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